As a caregiver for an older loved one, you work tirelessly and selflessly to provide care for a person you love. What happens when you’re giving it all you have, but your all isn’t good enough? Criticism is never easy to hear, but it is especially challenging in your role as caregiver. Loved ones and friends who are not involved in caregiving may not understand the full picture. Their suggestions could be well-meaning, but ill-informed. Or, there could be some difficult family dynamics going on. Whatever the source of the caregiving criticism you’re receiving, it’s essential to learn how to effectively respond.
Before you respond, pause for a moment. Take a breath and count to ten. Set any angry or resentful feelings aside. When you’re willing to answer calmly, try following these tips:
It may help to keep in mind that this can be a stressful time for everyone who loves the senior in need of care. Each person may be coping with the stress and worry differently. Just a little forgiveness and grace goes a long way toward reaching your common goal: ensuring the very best care and comfort for the older adult.
If you are providing the majority of care for a loved one, it’s vital to develop a network of support that enables you to make time for self-care. Morning Glory Home Care offers fully trained and experienced caregivers who can work with you to make sure you get the breaks from care you need to rest, relax, and recharge. Contact us at 618-667-8400 for more information on our in-home respite care services in Edwardsville, Alton, Collinsville, and nearby communities.
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